snowed in yesterday. really. snowy night and day yesterday/lastnight in these western north carolina mountains, where we habit-ate. wonders abound in the trees and on the snowlit branches, two distinct cardinal stopped by to eat the seed reeves throws in my yard, faithfully---snow, rain, shine, sleet.

amazing what the sky can do. or is it the god can do? or is it the being that lives of the world can dO? oh what wonder i won for free today. all for free, this panorama of nature's process, of nature naturally. how does it happen, this snow? and how does it make us so carefree and loving? how is it that we exude her glee when she flakes down on us?

as we walk the streets, which are hardly car-friendly yet, the ice melts and we seem to melt with it. people smile, knowing we are connected by this sudden new reality. there's a hand-holding sense that life is easy while we melt and defrost from this very snowy day.

the snow's effect is ::life can't go on as usual::she's a slow down sign, the yellow light of life. the snow puts us out while asking us to look in. consumerism and distraction is not so readily available; perhaps we will one day realize that love is our most sustainable resource.

it seems obvious, this aphorism, especially when electricity abandons us to quiet, a silence that lives underneath the usual hubbub of movement, getting things done, meeting people, lunching, grocery shopping, working at a job, tasking ourselves to death, aka::life as it goes culturally.

lights and clocks and computers and heat and tv and internet went out. powerless. PERHAPS. Aha, not me. Initial frustration and peevedness seeped into acceptance and settle and internal ground and letting myself will myself to being. and it wasn't will.

it was allowing the sensations of my body feel what is. the quiet supported being present to the snow sitting on the fences and the car, the ground, the porches, springs greens and autumns browns. Snow, water, falls to any level, all levels. Ah, and you know how much I love being surrounded by H2O!!

at 9:20pm lights were out and by 10:20 after attempting to read by flashlight and candle, i succumbed to the way it is. just is. is. is being is. and sleep came. so easily and quietly and softly.

Upon waking, I got a message from the local power co. that power would be restored by 9:45 am. My mind thought, OH good, only 2.5 hours until life can go back to the way it should be. Ha! Then I settled again and quiet remained, always remains, and I lied in bed for an hour, until Scout was the star of the morning.

Feeling and four-pawing the snow, he was a little puppy again........prancing, chasing my thrown snowballs, catching snow in his mouth, choking and then going for it all again. What a wonder dog. We walked in the snow for an hour or more. And it was my first time walking in snow to my knees. Scout wanted to run so badly and since snow covered every road, every yard, every silent everything, I let him go. And he ran and ran, until I panicked not being able to keep up with him. Scout I call, Scout, and as he is my dog, and we've established our love, he returned to me after finding what smells he needed to smell this morning.

It's been such a day.....Such a grandeloquent, quiet, kind of day. I went in and found inner power to make this a day of peace and prosperity and profound stillness. I love being alive, I'm willing to die, I'm scared to die, and I don't wanna die, but die I will, so I'll include that too.

.....at 12:20pm yesterday the other power company turned their power back on and I made granola and wrote thoughts down and cleaned my house of the snow debris after three grand walks with my dog, and he with me. I'm pleased. I'm wondering now How in the World are you?


PS: no wonder i love granola....it's a collagelike mix of oatmeal, nut, and dried fruit with some moistness keeping it all together. here's my granola pie

meanderings in my garden

I'm just learning how to blog, always learning how to live, and never learning everything but trying::i use what others have done or thought or learned or made for my very own, and then sometimes pass along::kind of like 2010 folklore '-)

here's some of what i came across this week that caused me aha or i remember or wow isn't this something!

farm to table
cookbooks. there's nothing but baking or cooking during the holidays that makes me happier; being in the kitchen, aware of what I am doing but not exactly sure of myself....Not being sure of myself is the route to an outcome that is satisfying to me....It's not only delicious, whatever I make, it's made up in the moment, no certainty until it's in my mouth.-)

sodabread
this is my favorite of all the bread baking I do....it's easy, and it was my first attempt at making bread. i first made it about four years ago, just after katrina, which was when i really started to bake. it came out oh so good, and each time i make it, it is still oh so good. i reiterate::it's easy.

greenfork
how about learning about being green?

favorite blog
i recommend mayamade for those of you wondering how to cycle paper towel roll holders again. mayaluna has a pretty fascinating, not quite simple way with craft.

anthropologie sale
and here is my favorite site for beautiful things

Garden your life, move through it, love into it, feel it out, & dig down...show your blossoms when you go out and nurture your roots by staying home.

being a person is what life is all about

this blog is called gardening a life because that seems to be what we do every day: till our soil, root our bodies, unearth ourselves, branch out, reach in, dig down, seek water and sun, live wild, grow beauty.

being a person is what life is all about.

one of my favorite marketing features is the way a company like aveda tests on people not animals:People-tested/Teste sure des etres humains/probabo en personas.

reeves and i sat in a new barnes and noble yesterday. we found books and magazines to peruse while we wiled the afternoon. i found a book of poems by one of my favorite poets: wislawa szymborska, a polish writer who won the nobel prize for literature a few years back.

here's the first poem i turned to:: No End of Fun

So he's got to have happiness,
he's got to have truth, too,
he's got to have eternity
did you ever!

He has only just learned to tell dreams from waking;
only just realized that he is he;
only just whittled with his hand ne' fin
a flint, a rocket ship;
easily drowned in the ocean's teaspoon,
not even funny enough to tickle the void;
sees only with his eyes;
hears only with his ears;
his speech's personal best is the conditional;
he uses his reason to pick holes in reason.
In short, he's next to no one,
but his head's full of freedom, omniscience, and the Being
beyond his foolish meat -
did you ever!

For he does apparently exist.
He genuinely came to be
beneath one of the more parochial stars.
He's lively and quite active in his fashion.
His capacity for wonder is well advanced
for a crystal's deviant descendant.
And considering his difficult childhood
spent kowtowing to the herd's needs,
he's already quite an individual indeed -
did you ever!

Carry on, then, if only for the moment
that it takes a tiny galaxy to blink!
One wonders what will become of him,

since he does in fact seem to be.
And as far as being goes, he really tries quite hard.
Quite hard indeed - one must admit.
With that ring in his nose, with that toga, that sweater.
He's no end of fun, for all you say.
Poor little beggar.
A human, if ever we saw one.

Ain't that sweet and everything juicy? Aren't you that sweet and juicy? Aren't you that human? Here's to a week of rooting, shining, tiling, mulching, leaving, blossoming and doing exactly what you need to do to be you.

psssst::there's a sale at shopterrain

a game, this life

We always want to know the rules. You sit down to a new game and wonder, what are the rules? How do I play? Rules rule our lives.

You always play perfectly, dear friend! And I find this insistence wonderful and more than that childish but adult, mature::it's a must. You got both! Me, too.

I tend to have little tantrums and bigger ones, but lately I've been having lots more clarity and willingness to have life be the way it is. No tantrum necessary.

It's chilly here, brrrr snow for hours; Scout romps in it and I am making granola, and giving myself a lot of faith to live in.

Be heart warmed, earth warmed and warmed by your two hands.

Great expectations are great, but they can get in the way of how it is. How is it? And how is it now?

Play games with life. Wonder what's gonna happen next. Not having to know is a gift you can give yourself this holiday.

Your plants don't know how the weather will be; they just root down and feel whatever comes. ....How about that for a new rule?

simple really

december is cold so far in asheville. today's high is 46. tomorrow's 35. brrrr. snowflakes are expected overnight. brrrrrr. so we snuggle and stay close. scout romps a lot during the chilly months. he can't wait to get out and run. i can.

today reeves has him while i create and move around my house without having to think about going for a walk, OUTSIDE, with scout. how i appreciate this gesture. a dog free day.

tomorrow i participate in an outdoor craft show. rain, shine, snow. come what may, we'll be there.

i haven't written or considered what else to write so here's a list :: made as i write it.

:: life's simple really.
:: let someone help you.
:: go for it.
:: let someone else decide.
:: make it yourself.
:: smile.
:: remember you are rooted.
:: question your own answer.
:: hot baths work wonders.
:: freedom is found at the library.
:: try decaf.
:: stick your tongue out for fun when you're alone.
:: listen for the birds.
:: walk hand in hand, even if it's your own.
:: show.
:: thank the heavens, the gods and goddesses, city hall isn't in charge of everything!

cheers to the weekend..............................................................................................
'til, root & grow, soon.

collecting small

today I've been noticing how I collect small...small people are my favorite but small ideas, small bites of food and small projects are all good too. small plants, particularly jade plants, succulent and green turn me happy and inspired. why small, i wonder.

look at that collection of tools, spades mostly, on that green wall. how does something so simple bring me such peace and to a place of wish? what a wall of big impression. i bet they belong to a small, wise tiller of the earth. and just look at what those tools can do, small job by small job.

small walks and small naps, small pillows, little notes here and there. nothing small about small. small hands, my sister's in particular enlighten me. her hands amaze me; she's tall and striking while her hands are tender and maternal. they have soothed some of my big tears.

i also collect impressions.....i look at people and wonder what it's like to be who they are. do you do that? i get an impression of someone fast and then most often continue on. but sometimes a light goes on. sometimes a fancy is struck. the chance in a glance, to find myself studying a gesture or a manner. my attraction gene flares. i see someone and find myself glued through the air. i begin staring, steady to the impressions magically noted in me.

recently at my favorite store in asheville, greenlife, i saw a woman uniquely dressed. she was ordinary looking but her style evoked sophistication and style coupled with low country and harmony. she wore brown ankle length twill jeans, pockets at her hips, a white blouse of some former decade, a low slung leather pouch strapped across her back, and a man's vest of small argyle. the sandals she wore on this blustery day made me think she was visiting from greece as her deep tan felt hot as she crossed my path. she was magnetic without flirtation or want of attention, at least as far as I could tell. I suppose we all want attention, but her presence caught mine and i wondered, who is she and how did she become this woman she presents to us?

her hair, blond, had three layers, and she wore no make up. she was pretty, a rouge to her tanned cheeks. dimples featured in her smile. her companion was a man of another race than hers. she was about 5'10'' but her presence was smaller than that. and lasting.

my other collections include:::meals and combinations of flavors:::reasons to be melancholy:::philosophical questions:::books:::fears:::hanging strands:::poems:::mistakes:::risks:::new combinations of pictures, sounds, and feelings with different results!

looking at the gardens around my neighborhood one can see that small is good. in a small space, my neighbors seem to be able to continue to grow. we don't need big if we don't have big. we need what we have. thanks be to small.

ps:
i admit too that i like big:::dogs, beds, pools, spaces and slices of doberge cake.

my daily people requirement

i changed parts of my life about two weeks ago. i left a job to create my own. that changes other parts of my life.

here are some reflections so far:

there's no getting away from yourself.
things that don't work at a job, don't work at any job.
bad bosses exist ... i don't want to be one of them.
finding your threshold is important.
honesty ... you know what they say in the policy book.
money helps everything.
risk is a must.
love what you do. not always but 75% of the time.
take a break when you need to.
smile while you are working....it helps. try it.
be visible even if you work in a cubicle.
stay until you are finished.
priorities become clear with every decision you make.
call a friend when you feel lost or stuck. hearing her, listening to him helps you unglue yourself.

liberating yourself from something that doesn't work is strict business. it's not for the tepid or faint hearted. there's no fooling around in the pursuit of making connections with yourself or a greater audience. you're the one. and in my case, i'm the one.

being at focus on my cards and my teaching/tutoring endeavors is showing me just who i am. ....both nobody in particular, one of everyone of us, and somebody to listen to, somebody people love and admire, one of the extraordinary. the universe birthed me with a compass; it's just like your compass only yours points directions given to you, to follow, get lost in, fall into, move toward and away from yourself and your 'purpose'. we must listen, look, feel our ways.

scout sometimes is my scout. he's somewhere i'm not waiting for me, or bringing me somewhere i need to go. the other night, on our last walk of the day, he refused to continue at the end of the first block. i pulled his leash, hard, he needed to walk i thought, pulling his neck this way and that. "come on bird" i mustered and plead, "let's go!" he remained sitting, the collar almost pulled over his head from my militant tug. But he wouldn't go south down hudson street, he wouldn't move north up pennsylvania, nor would he continue down state street, west. instead he pulled me eastward and home.

and in that purpose, bringing me home, at that very moment, i was there to be there for a deepening and a reality check with myself and another. how did scout know? did he? i need a story and my story is:::he knew! '-) so i giggled and giggle now as i find the absurdity in that possibility, but why not?

i wonder does the number of people in your life, to whatever degree, in whatever way, correlate with anything? i think that number does correlate to something BIG, but what? i notice that i'm in touch with more business contacts than i had a week ago. i have more possibility with new people in my life than a week ago. i have more people touching my life than a week ago and i'm touching more lives than ever! of course. and it took me going out on my own, heralding myself, making a wave, causing my own stir.

it seems to me now that i am working for myself and for my customers that by doing this move toward empowering myself i have a greater responsibility to empower the people around me.

have a happy thanksgiving. ...don't eat too much.....just enough....love, from the garden.

unite in the sky

i love how life works because i don't know for sure. do the birds know? might the trees? i think so.

at least the birds and the trees seem just fine with the mystery. they aren't wondering or worrying or waiting for the other foot to fall as we so often are. they already live the natural life.
this morning i took a long walk with scout at my side, in front me, and sometimes behind me, me having to pull him away from yet another snack of who knows what! the sun was out at 8. bright. shining. warming, on this brisk morning with frequent breeze and wisp of wind.
i'm happy again. don't have any particular reason. just am. just being. just walking with scout.
looking up, admiring and shining back at the sun, i thought of michael kenna & his admiration, praise and thanksgiving for trees. particular ones in japan. particular ones he returns to, has returned to over many years, it seems he has created a friendship with certain trees on the furthest north japanese island of hokkaido.
he has befriended trees; he closes in on them and opens to them getting to know them with each visit he makes to see them, to photograph them, to be there with them. for he must travel to them since they stay in one place for a lifetime (imagine.).
are they dependent on each other, i wonder---michael kenna and the tree? does kenna expand in its presence? do they await his return? is there expectation of return when they leave each other?
at times in my life i've adopted a tree or two as my favorites. i think of it, see them in my mind's eye, a certain circle of trees welcoming visitors to my house in pass christian. the ones i loved when i lived on maplewood road here in asheville. others from the past, distantly....oaks and magnolias come to mind. they stand tall. they are rooted. they are brave. and are they seeingly more of the present moment than me....being so tall and standing above me with a view i cannot know unless i climb above the earth.
it's about an hour walk scout and i take about two times a week, we circle and loop through other neighborhoods than our own. i noticed bare tree limbs today, with sky showing through. crackly, breaking, mangled looking limbs holding on to their main source, the trunk being so powerful, spinal and erect. and the sun and shine and blue and white and sky's air shows through the brittle, baring limbs high, higher and not so high. anywhere there isn't limb on the tree, there is sky. the sky unites the limbs, and keeps them apart in space.
what does michael kenna know of trees that i do not? what does he know of life that i will learn? what do we both sense and trust forever?
bark is brittle in small parts but put together tightly and trunks hold tight to the earth. holding to the earth by root tiny, deeply ground tendrils, growing for years more than many of us here. how's that for being here now?
i love the way that life works, the small ways we connect with each other and the trees and the birds. the sky unites us, the air does, too. photographs remind us and voice shares with us. we do our best every day. and here we are. wherever we are. we are here.
it's the weekend before a big one coming. enjoy your feasts, families, and findings.